With the coming of Christmas, I found myself doing what so many musicians do — playing the big three carols late into the quiet hours of the morning. Fingers numb, my pedal foot begging for relief. The dog had long since given up and gone to sleep, probably wishing I would close the door and finally call it a night.
And then, Silent Night appeared.
My mind wandered, as it often does, and suddenly I was no longer at the piano. I was back at a Christmas gathering from my teenage years — a moment that has never left me.
My mother had suffered a massive stroke when I was in high school. Overnight, everything changed. She lost her speech. Her mobility was limited. She wore a specially engineered leg brace, and for two years, we watched her struggle through both good days and not-so-good days. She communicated through her eyes, shared our exhaustion, and somehow still showed up — attending my graduation and every one of my chorus concerts.
Music never left her.
As I sat down at the stag...
There are moments in life when music stops being something we play —
and becomes something we are.
Patricia shared one of those moments, and it’s stayed with me.
As Christmas approached, she found herself doing what so many musicians do — playing familiar carols late into the quiet hours of the night. Fingers numb. The pedal foot is begging for relief. Even the dog had given up and gone to sleep.
And then Silent Night appeared.
What followed wasn’t just a memory — it was a return.
Patricia’s mother suffered a massive stroke when Patricia was in high school. In an instant, speech was taken away. Mobility changed. Life reorganized itself around patience, resilience, and love. For years, her mother communicated through her eyes, showed up through sheer will, and attended every graduation and every chorus concert.
Music, however, never left her.
During Christmas, the power went out. The room went quiet. Someone produced a napkin with the words Silent Night written on it. And without...
There’s something electrifying about standing at the edge of a new year.
A blank page.
A decision point.
A moment where who you’ve been and who you want to become finally meet.
Maybe 2025 was loud for you. Maybe it was quiet.
Maybe you achieved everything you planned — or maybe it didn’t go the way you hoped.
But 2026 has not been written yet.
And that makes it powerful.
Because here’s the truth:
Nothing changes because the calendar does.
Change happens because you do.
Your dreams won’t chase you.
Your joy won’t build itself.
Your passion won’t ignite out of nowhere.
At some point, you have to decide that the life you imagine isn’t something you admire from a distance —
it’s something you build with your hands.
Maybe you’ve been waiting for permission.
Waiting for clarity.
Waiting to feel “ready.”
Waiting for the fear to go away.
But fear doesn’t disappear —
you just get stronger than it.
And confidence?
It isn’t something you magically wake up with.
Confidence is a result.
A...
Some breakthroughs don’t come with applause or big performances.
They come quietly — in moments where fear loosens its grip and confidence gently takes its place.
Irina experienced one of those moments recently, and it meant more than she may even realize.
She played a little for a friend who listened over the phone. On the surface, it sounds simple. But for Irina, this was something entirely new.
“I wasn’t shaking and I wasn’t in a state of anxiety like before.”
That sentence alone says everything.
In the past, playing for someone — even informally — brought anxiety, tension, and fear. But this time, Irina noticed something different in herself. Her body was calm. Her mind was steady. And instead of panic, there was presence.
One of the key shifts came from a simple suggestion:
to start recording herself on video, and to send those videos even with mistakes.
“Sending videos with mistakes helped me let go of fear.”
This is where real growth begins.
Not when the mistakes...
Yesterday, I experienced something that felt small on the outside — but incredibly meaningful on the inside.
I played a little for a friend while she listened over the phone. That alone might not sound like much, but for me, it was a real breakthrough.
In the past, moments like that would fill me with anxiety. My hands would shake, my heart would race, and fear would take over. But this time, something was different.
“I wasn’t shaking or in a state of anxiety like before.”
And for the first time, I could truly feel how far I’ve come.
One of the most helpful suggestions I received was to start video recording myself — even when I make mistakes — and to share those videos without waiting for perfection. That idea alone changed my entire relationship with playing.
“Sending videos with mistakes helped me let go of fear.”
Instead of freezing, I played.
Instead of panicking, I breathed.
Instead of judging myself, I listened.
And something beautiful happened:
my confidence beg...
One of the most powerful things I witness inside Ridley Academy is what happens when a student receives the right guidance — personalized, thoughtful, and rooted in genuine care. Benoit’s journey is a beautiful example of this.
From the moment he joined the Mentorship Program, he discovered something essential: the extraordinary advantage of having a competent teacher who is deeply invested in his progress. Rex, his mentor, did what great teachers do — he saw Benoit’s potential immediately and helped him believe in it too.
That belief changed everything for him.
Benoit shared that he now feels fully confident in his ability to reach his piano goals. Not eventually. Not “maybe someday.” But truly — and for the rest of his life.
“Rex convinced me I will be able to reach my piano goals. Now I am very confident about my capabilities.”
What struck me most is how clearly Benoit understands one of the core truths of becoming a musician:
It’s not just what you practice — it’s how you ...
Being in the Mentorship Program has opened my eyes to something I never truly understood before: the incredible advantage of having a competent, caring piano teacher who is personally invested in my progress.
Rex is my teacher, and from the very beginning, he convinced me that I would reach my piano goals. That belief alone changed everything. Today, I feel more confident than ever in my capabilities, and I know I will continue playing and improving for the rest of my life.
One of the most important things Rex taught me is what to practice daily — and even more importantly, how to practice.
That second part is essential.
The way you practice determines whether you make real progress or stay stuck. Learning the correct method has made all the difference for me.
Both Rex and Stephen also taught us how to play songs using chord sheets, which has been transformative. I’ve even started creating my own arrangements in the refrain of a song I learned — something I never imagined I would do...
There are moments in this Academy that stay with me — not because of a difficult piece mastered or a complex skill learned, but because of a quiet shift inside a student. Clarence had one of those moments inside the Mentorship — a moment of confidence, honesty, and growth that says far more than any scale or song ever could.
For years, whenever someone asked him, “Do you play the piano?” Clarence never felt sure of his answer. He told us he often said something like, “Well… it depends on who you ask,” because deep down, he didn’t feel confident enough to claim it.
But this week, something different happened. Something small… yet incredibly meaningful.
Someone asked him that same question —
And for the first time, Clarence finally said:
“YES, I can play the piano.”
That moment means more than any song, any scale, or any exercise.
It’s the moment when the work finally becomes real inside someone.
Clarence has been steadily building skills through the Masterclass. With the suppo...
This is my win from the Mentorship — and while it may seem simple at first glance, to me, it feels huge.
For as long as I can remember, whenever someone asked me if I could play the piano, I never felt comfortable giving a straight answer. I’d usually say something like, “Well… it depends on who you ask,” because deep down, I didn’t feel confident enough to claim it.
I always felt like I was almost there… but not quite.
But this week, something shifted in a way I didn’t expect.
Someone asked me, “Do you play the piano?”
And before I could overthink it, before doubt had a chance to creep in, I said:
“YES — I can play the piano.”
And this time, the answer didn’t feel forced.
It didn’t feel uncertain.
It felt true.
That moment was a milestone for me. It showed me just how far I’ve come — thanks to the skills I’ve learned in the Masterclass and the ongoing support from Ridley Academy and my coach, Carlos Day. It’s one thing to see progress on your own, but it’s something entirely...
I’ve been part of Ridley Academy for over a year now — I’ve taken the Masterclass, completed the Five Day Challenge, joined the Mentorship Program, and honestly… every single thing Stephen has created from day one has been nothing short of thrilling, majestic, superb, and absolutely life-changing. I could keep going, but you get the point.
I hold Stephen Ridley and his entire team in the highest esteem.
“Stephen helped me see the good in people — the good in everyone — and he unlocked a very rare and special gift inside me that I didn’t even know was there.”
Before Ridley Academy, I used to look at a piano and think: “That’s not for me. Who am I kidding? I’m no musician.”
But that changed after the Five Day Challenge. I became convinced — absolutely convinced — that I can do this. And not just do it, but soar.
Stephen calls it the rhythm method (yes, I renamed it by accident and cracked myself up), but whatever he calls it… it works. It opened my eyes to a version of myself I d...
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